
Abundance
And The Art Of Giving
Giving
moves us because it frees us ads well as bestows abundance.
When
we give, for a minute we're released from thoughts on how we are, how we were,
how we will be, how individuals view us, how we could be, how we should be, and
so forth. It’s the tape that continues playing in our mind. When we give with
an exposed heart, we remember that we're not alone
You
might want to say to me, “What? Naturally I know I’m not alone!” True. But
let’s attempt an experiment. In order for this experimentation to work, you
need to be strained. You’re not? Kudos, you’re apparently an angel and can stop
studying now. The experimentation is for the rest of us who hurl towards
everyday life. We try to finish work, buy groceries, attend work affairs,
organize schedules, plan celebrations, contact family and friends, clean the
home, and do a lot of other things – even though time seems to be in short
supply.
Ok,
so you and I are strained, right? My question to you is:
When
strained, what percentage of waking time do you spend thinking of your own
life?
Include
thoughts about your work, preparation thoughts, thoughts about the past, ideas
about pressing tasks, and thoughts about your relationship with other people.
The higher the stress, the more we become rolled up in our own life
And
when we’re rolled up in our own life, we get oblivious to the fact that there
are others ‘out there’, and that they have troubles and needs too. That’s where
the miracle of giving comes out. When we
give with an exposed heart, we abruptly wake up from the old tapes and feel
linked to others.
That’s
why the Buddhist tradition sets Dana, the path of unselfishness, as the first
of the ten Perfections. Dana implies freely giving of one’s material goods,
time or wiseness to others. Dana is the first of the ten Perfections as
unselfishness is a fundamental ambition from which all spirituality flows. For
instance, unselfishness is the basis of kindness and compassion. When we give
with a virtuous heart, we feel elated.
What
is a virtuous heart? It’s giving without any thought of restitution. Actually,
our motives for giving are often tinted with ‘unclean’ motives: perhaps we're
shamed or browbeaten into giving; or we give to receive a privilege; or we give
in order to feel good about ourselves.
Each
act of giving comes forth from that core of goodness, even though layers of
mixed need might cloud our natural ambition of generosity. If we touch that
core of goodness, we feel moved. This is natural giving. Give freely, and
relish how your core of goodness is touched.
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